As much as we Bahraini Bellas bitch about one another, hate on each other, and are just all around mean, we have a lot on common! Whether you are a conservative wall-flower or a flamboyant diva, we are all just looking for true love. Well, ladies, let me help you on your journey to conform in a disfunctional but ultimately wholesome relationship. (Lets be honest, all that relationship advice from Sex & the City just does not apply to us!)

Monday, June 13, 2011

All Dressed Up & Goin No Where

The dreaded question that haunts every girl trying to connect with her potential beau in Bahrain: Where do we go? Every girl.

Would it or would it not be amazing to be able to hop in a cab and head for dinner in some Bohemia-chic restaurant down in Soho like in Gossip Girl? Or throw on your sundress and head to the beach like in 90210?

Oh, if only...

So what is the answer? Where can you have a nice, quiet meeting with the guy you have just settled in to and want to spend quality time with? Where you wont run into familiar faces? Not too sleazy? Not too far away? Where oh where oh where...

Now the problem is not just where to go, but what impression to give off by your choice of date spot. No girl wants to give off the hoochie mama vibe, but let me tell you, ladies, "cruising" is not the way to go. Not only is driving around the car putting you at potential risk of being pulled over by the po-po (yes, they have the authority to do that) but also its quite tacky! No, girls. Do not resort to the "cruise" option, BAD IDEA!!!

Where should you go? Here are a few spots I've found to be chic, neat, and hush-hush for some good old-fashioned getting to know one another session. I suggest you check out any spots that sound interesting to you beforehand a couple of times with a girlfriend you trust and see if it tickles your fancy.

Minos, Adliya
Although its situated in the heart of block 338, you will hardly find anyone there, especially during weekdays! Its quiet, quaint, has a cute romantic atmosphere going on. The food is very homey, more comfort food than fine dining, but overall secluded and sweet. Quiet enough to have a comfortable conversation in and give the darling impression off too.

Multi Cafe, Juffair
This little cafe is absolutely adorable! Small, almost tiny, but the whole ambiance is delightful. You wont run into anyone you know because there is almost never anyone there! Although it doesn't conceal much in the matter of faces, but it is hardly a problem as its not the hot spot in many peoples radars.

Pastel, Hamala
You would never think that a romantic spot would be situated in the middle of a complex, but they have done it! Pastel is a chocolataire and has a few little tables which situate 2 people, perfect for a first date. Snug, elegant, and always serene. And if all goes well, treat yourself with extra chocolates on your way out! (Note: they close pretty early, so its a pre-sunset destination)

Deja Vu, Adliya
If you're not one to mind a lounging atmosphere, or your guy may have a taste for alcohol, this is the place to be. Classy, low-key, dare I say, invisible! Which is funny since its in the middle of a huge empty lot behind the busiest spot of them all (The Gulf Hotel)

Primavera, The Ritz Carlton
You probably didn't even think of it did you? That is the point! It has always been there but nobody ever thinks to go! Which consequently makes it perfect for a romantic date, if not the best place for one. The food is.. so,so.. but the place is just lovely. Sure win.

Typhoon, The Gulf Hotel
A lot like Mai Tai, this lounge is a little outdoorsy and has a live but not so lively band that plays. The view is gorgeous, and the seating is extremely comfortable. Unfortunately though, its a booze-y spot so if you're not an alcoholic, cross it off the list.

Upstairs Downstairs, Adliya
Another hidden yet obvious wonder, never thought of it did you? That's right, its in your face all the time but you never thought to have dinner or lunch there! Well think again. During the day it is beautiful to say the least and always uncrowded, you will never see it bustling with people, perfect for an afternoon date! The food though, not so great. Who cares though right? You're there for some one-on-one time!

La Chocolat, Bahrain Fort
Another daytime date spot. The Bahrain Fort has a little museum situated right next to it (bet you didn't know that did you!) With a path which leads up to the fort and overlooks the sea. Although it isn't the most snazzy spot, it certainly has a fantastic view; sea, gardens, fort, really what more could you ask for? Put on a breezy outfit, head down there during sunset for tea and cake and then for a walk by the fort. Sun goes down, lights come on, and one of the most stunning views on the island!

Cappuccino Cafe, Saar
Although not so glamorous or fabulous, it has the comfort food that you just can NOT go wrong with. Mostly quiet, generally good service, and very secluded from the public eye. Much like Coco's, only now with better food and much better service (chances of u getting frustrated at a waiter are low!)

and finally,

Amwaj Islands
Park your cars by the Lagoon and head for a walk by the sea! Although it is ridiculously warm in lovely B-town, its still a great view and you can take full advantage of our freebie beaches, especially when you have nothing coming between you and your beau and hours of conversation (Woohoo!) So use it girls, head on down pres de la mer (Ya3ni 3ind ilba7aaaar)

Although they are just a few, I'll make sure to follow up with more hot spots for date nights. Remember ladies, less is more (And by that, I mean make up of course. And maybe clothing)



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